Kevin Samuels quotes

Kevin Samuels is a renowned life and relationship coach who has gained popularity for his no-nonsense approach to self-improvement. With over 20 years of experience in coaching, Kevin helps individuals redefine their personal style, improve their relationships, and boost their confidence. Through his YouTube channel and podcast, he provides valuable insights on dating, self-care, and success, attracting millions of followers worldwide. If you're looking to level up in life and love, Kevin Samuels is the go-to guru for practical advice and inspiration.

Women like you die alone, straight up, because you think you’re better than the men that you qualify for. And the only reason honestly, ma’am, that I can see a woman like yourself really thinking you deserve more is because you earn more money than most people around you in North Carolina. High value men don’t care about your money, not the kind of men that you want. We don’t care about your money, it ain’t ours. We care about the fact that you are older, and you got kids and you're average in looks.

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Women for the last 30 to 40 years have been told they can have it all whenever they want, no matter how they are. And they’ve been given an unrealistic expectation of their actual sexual marketplace value.

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Women by nature want to consolidate on the highest value man possible. Social media and dating apps have now made it where you have almost 100% of women wanting men in the top 10 and 20%. To produce this outcome, which is unrealistic, you want a man making at least six figures, that’s only 10%, 14% of the population.

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What percentage of men in this country make six figures or more? It's 10%. So the question is what do those men, who make that kind of money, who all women tend to want, what do they want?

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We're shocked because people don't tell women the truth these days. Men get told the truth all the time, women have no problem telling a man: I don't want an average man. It happens every day on my show. TLC said they don't want no scrubs and we have no problem telling average men 'you ain't crap' but if I just happen to have the nerve to agree with the woman that says she's average then I'm Satan.

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We have gotten to the point that for the most part we don't known how to relate to each other. We know how to swipe left, swipe right, hook up and get on.

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We ask so much of each other without realizing how much of a sacrifice it is to give someone what they want physically, mentally and financially. Women want a financially stable, young, sensitive man capable of violence and men want a chaste, sexually liberated mother who also can host dinner parties.

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Typically women like you trying to get something outside of their range knowing it's outside their range, knowing that you don't know these kind of men. You don't know where these guys go, you don't know what they want. yeah you're fixated on having them because you feel like you should have them beacause your socioeconomic status. Not a good chance you're going to find that person if you don't you'll end up dying without one meaning die alone.

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The first thing I tell guys I coach is that we have to get brutally honest about where you are and where you want to get to. Understand how far that is and put in the work.

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So many modern women today cannot deliver the girlfriend experience. That's why you don't get the wife treatment. The girlfriend experience is respect, affection, support, peace and tranquility.

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Men get told every day where they rank, they get rejected all the time. Men known what they quote unquote qualify for, but women for the last 30-40 years have been told you can have it all whenever you want no matter how you are. And they've been given an unrealistic expectation of their actual sexual marketplace value.

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Making a man in your present pay for stuff in your past equals no future.

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Ladies, you wonder why your men steps out and exercises his options? Because you ain't meeting his needs.

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Ladies understand something when a man asks you out on a date he's asking to have sex! If you don't wanna have sex with him don't go on a date with him.

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If you have made it to 35 and you are unmarried, you are a leftover woman. You are what is left. Men know that there is likely something wrong with you. When you were between the ages of 22 and 25 and you didn’t want to settle — you were trying to get the CEO, the pilot, the investment banker, you were trying to get flewed out.

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I don’t know what you’re talking about that a man shouldn’t, cheat or whatever. When you broke the first rule that men want: women who are fit. At five feet eight and 220 pounds, you weigh more than a man at that height. You’re about the size that Emmitt Smith and Barry Sanders were, you’re running-back size. I need you to get fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, and submissive in order to find a man.

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I don't care about your pride. You can't be proud and broke ate the same time.

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Gentlemen, if a woman is not good for your ego, get rid of her.

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Fashion and style have always been passions of mine for as long as I can remember. And a background in professional sales as well as in advertising and marketing was real world training for just how important your appearance is to your success.

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Do not give to anybody based upon your level of attraction or interest. Do or give based upon their level of investment. If she gives 1 you give 1, if she gives 2 you give 2. Making women not earn you time is a great way to get stuck in the friend zone or losing attraction.

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A woman that's in high demand, her mindset is three main things: she's cooperative, she's smart, and she's agreeable. All three of those things must be there. She must be smart, but a woman that's smart and disagreeable is not a woman that's in high demand, she's not a woman that's really wanted. A woman who's smart and cooperative but not agreeable is kind of useless. Cause she'll only cooperate when she agrees. A woman who's cooperative and agreeable but not smart is kinda like the blind leading the blind. She must be smart, cooperative and agreeable.

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If a woman decides to go on a date with any man after the hours of 5 p.m., intimacy should be on the menu. However, if the intention of the woman is to keep the relationship with the man 'strictly platonic', the time frame of noon to 3 p.m. is more suitable.

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